Our First Year at HMS: Why We Enrolled & Why We Stay
Jennifer & Brian DeCuir
As a first-year family to High Meadows School, we came in hopeful but cautious—wondering whether the school’s values would truly extend beyond mission statements and marketing language. What we’ve experienced thus far has exceeded our expectations.
From the very beginning, High Meadows made it clear that our daughter would be known, valued, and challenged as her full self. Her teachers took the time to learn our family story, her interests, and the cultural context that shapes who she is. That intentionality showed up not just in warm conversations, but in the classroom: an inclusive curricula, diverse authors and perspectives, and lessons that encourage critical thinking about identity, justice and community in age-appropriate ways.
What stands out most is that High Meadows School doesn’t shy away from hard conversations about race, equity, and belonging; instead, it treats them as essential to educating thoughtful, compassionate humans. Equally important, our child feels safe and joyful. She is encouraged to speak up, ask questions, and take intellectual risks. She sees herself reflected not only in books and lessons, but in the respect she receives from teachers, faculty and peers. As parents, that sense of belonging matters deeply.
We chose High Meadows School because of its progressive values. We stay because those values are lived daily—in classrooms, in community spaces and in relationships. As an African American family navigating our first year here, we are grateful to be part of a school that is committed to educating with both excellence and conscience and that understands diversity as a strength that enriches everyone.
The High Meadows community celebrates and perpetuates each individual’s quest for knowledge and skill, sense of wonder, and connection to the natural environment. We empower each to be a compassionate, responsible, and active global citizen.